Thinking Differently About Growing Older

Sometimes, as women, we find it hard to accept getting older and the way our bodies change.

Society tells us that being young and pretty is what matters most, making us forget all the good things that come with time passing.

But let’s question these ideas and appreciate the beauty of aging together.

Chattanooga Travel blogger, Kathy Brown standing in the elegant staircase of the Dwell Hotel.  Beauty of aging

Wisdom in Midlife: The Power of Discernment

Growing Smarter with Age: Learning from Life’s Experiences

Next time you look in the mirror and see those lines at the corner of your once flawless eyes, consider this.

As we get older, we become wiser. When I was younger, I used to believe everything people told me and could be easily influenced.

But now, my squinting eyes show that I’ve become more discerning.

I can see when someone is trying to deceive me.

Through the years, I’ve learned to ask questions, search for the truth, and make better choices. Wisdom comes with age, and it helps us navigate life better.

Every one of those wrinkles and lines around those beautiful eyes was earned with life experience.

Woman leans against a tall palm tree on a luxurious Aruba beach. She has a multi-colored beach blanket draped across her shoulders, protecting her from the sun. Her hair is up in a bun and she is wearing a blue and white bathing suit. In the background, white sand beaches and turquoise waters create a paradise setting.

Letting Go of Unrealistic Beauty Standards

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We often feel pressure to look a certain way, as if only youth and beauty have value. But that’s not true! Each stage of life brings its own kind of beauty.

Let’s break free from society’s unrealistic standards. Embrace the unique beauty that comes with getting older.

Overcoming Society’s Standards: Redefining Beauty and Happiness

One struggle many women face is the pressure to maintain a certain weight, especially during menopause.

However, the secret to aging well is not found on a scale. We must stop judging every pound and linking it to our happiness.

I refuse to go back to my 20s when I questioned every morsel I ate and felt trapped by constant self-judgment.

Health and happiness go beyond numbers. So yes, I’ll enjoy that piece of chocolate guilt-free.

Travel Blogger Kathy Brown stands in the middle of Atlanta Braves baseball stadium with her two Grandchildren.

Finding Strength in Our Drooping Chin

Women over 50 have often faced emotional challenges and setbacks, but we’ve learned to keep our chins held high.

Our drooping chin is not a sign of defeat but a testament to our resilience and strength.

It reminds us of how far we’ve come and serves as a reminder to give ourselves a well-deserved break.

Aging gracefully means embracing the changes and recognizing the power within us

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Yes, I’m over 50. Yes, I love early bird specials. But that doesn’t mean I’m settling for a life of bingo nights and sensible shoes.** I’m Kathy Brown, a Chattanooga-based travel and lifestyle blogger who’s traded bingo halls for bucket lists and exchanged sensible shoes for sensible adventures. (Okay, maybe I still pack sensible shoes, but only for the plane ride. #Priorities)

Think of me as your sassy travel fairy godmother, sprinkling wanderlust and laughter on your newsfeed.

I’ll show you how to explore the world (and your backyard) without breaking the bank or your back. Because let’s face it, aging is inevitable, but looking and feeling fabulous on your next adventure? Totally optional (but highly encouraged).

Expect witty travel tales, hilarious mishaps (I’m a walking disaster zone), and insider tips for the mature (but still totally cool) traveler.

We’re talking hidden gems, delicious eats that won’t blow your dentures out, and age-appropriate activities that don’t involve bingo or complaining about the weather. (Although, let’s be honest, sometimes the weather deserves a good rant.)

So, ditch the rocking chair and grab your passport, sugar.

It’s time to prove that life after 50 is the real happy hour. Join me on this wild ride, and let’s show the world that even with a few extra candles on our cake, we can still laugh, explore, and maybe even do a tequila shot without faceplanting. (Disclaimer: I’m not responsible for any tequila-induced faceplanting. But I’ll laugh about it with you.)

And remember darling: Age ain’t nothin’ but a number. It’s the laugh lines and the wild stories that truly define you. Now go out there and make some memories that’ll give your grandkids something to talk about!

P.S. Don’t forget to check out my blog for Chattanooga-specific tips and tricks. Because even hometown adventures deserve a little Kathy Brown magic.